How to Actually Set Your Big Lap Departure Date (Not Just Talk About It)
I’ve helped a lot of families plan their Big Lap over the years, and there’s one mistake I see pop up again and again. It can push a family’s trip back by months, sometimes even years.
It’s not the van. It’s not the budget. It’s the departure date, or more specifically, never actually picking one.

Stuck in “Fairyland”
This is what we call being in Fairyland. You go around telling all your friends and family about this magical trip, that you want to get a caravan and travel Australia and see Uluru and Karijini and the Karri trees and all these amazing places. And your family and friends just go, “well, just go.”
Instead, so many families keep talking about it. They keep researching. They can’t get out of the loop of research and planning. Everything else you can put in place, what to do with the house, what to do with your stuff. But until you have that departure date, you can’t put your timeline in place. That’s the hardest thing to do.
Think About Your Important Dates First
Have you got a family wedding coming up? Are your kids doing graduation, or their Year 12 exams? Is there a big event you should hang around for? Don’t forget, when you’re partway through a year-long trip, you can always fly home, just budget for it.
Write all your big dates down first.
Work Out Roughly Where and When You Want to Go
Don’t go to the top of Australia over summer. Wet season means closed roads, it’s not touristy, and it’s really, really hot. Start your summer travel down south. In winter, the top of Australia is awesome, unless you want the snow.
Put down the month you want to be somewhere, not a specific date. Don’t write “Ningaloo for the whale sharks on the 10th of June”, that just puts pressure on you. Put the rough month, then work back from there and slot in the big dates from the step above.
Circle a Month, Then Narrow It Down
Get everyone travelling with you involved, your partner, your adult kids, whoever. Circle a month on the calendar. That’s your starting point. Then, in the next conversation, start narrowing it down to an actual date.
From there it comes down to work, the house, finances. Have a chat with your boss, have a chat with the school, get all those pieces in place. Once you’ve done that, narrow it down to an actual date. That’s your departure date. You can still change it, but now you’ve got something to work towards.

